SSH, or Secure Shell, is a protocol used to securely log onto remote systems (Not just computers but some routers, switches, etc). It is the most common way to access remote Linux and Unix-like servers.
PuTTY is a free software application for Windows 95, 98, XP, Vista, 7, (the ill fated 8 & 8.1), and (the mess that is) Windows 10 which can be used to make an SSH connection to your server. You can download the application from https://www.chiark.greenend.org.uk/~sgtatham/putty/latest.html
Before you start, you'll need:
Another option, for those using Windows 10, is Windows PowerShell.
Current versions of PowerShell (2021 and later) work much like using SSH from Linux. Earlier versions use a different command structure that you can Google if needed.
The default PowerShell color scheme leaves much to be desired, so if you have trouble reading a blue font on a blue background, you can change the color scheme by right clicking on the window logo and choosing Properties.